Take a look at this: http://developers.facebook.com/bugs/254482947993644
"...this is a deliberate limitation of the API Event invites made this way will still increment the counter in the 'events' bookmark and add the event to the user's events list"
which makes NO sense to me why, if a user is invited to an event, then shouldn't that person know? Where's the user experience standpoint?
and these user initiated apprequests are truly pointless. I get 23 of em a day from Texas Hold'em alone.
am I the only one who's frustrated with their API?