I just keep planning without any action. This year I decided that I will work on a side project. So far I have only purchased domain and made zero progress beyond it.

I also want to learn machine learning, scala and bunch of other stuff. How do I do that? Travel in bay area takes daily 2 hrs out of my life. I am also looking to date a girl but I can't find time and motivation to log in to online account and send cheesy messages.

I feel bad because I am not making any progress and because I feel bad I don't make any progress.

I go to gym at least 3 times a week and do some light exercise. I am not obese.

Did anyone suffer from such dilemma ? How do you become go getter and someone who is just outstanding or above average ?